Thursday, June 10, 2010

Girls and Boys

I went to dinner with Ariel last night and she gave me a poster that I love that was apparently adapted from a poem by Nancy R. Smith and this is what it says:

For every girl who is tired of acting weak when she is strong, there is a boy tired of appearing strong when he feels vulnerable.

For every boy who is burdened with the constant expectation of knowing everything, there is a girl tired of people not trusting her intelligence.

For every girl who is tired of being called over-sensitive, there is a boy who fears to be gentle, to weep.

For every boy for whom competition is the only way to prove his masculinity, there is a girl who is called unfeminine when she competes.

For every girl who throws out her E-Z-Bake oven, there is a boy who wishes to find one.

For every boy struggling not to let advertising dictate his desires, there is a girl facing the ad industry's attacks on her self-esteem.

For every girl who takes a step toward her liberations, there is a boy who finds the way to freedom a little easier.

I'm so glad I wasn't the only one who wanted an E-Z-Bake oven. Wait, I wasn't the only one, right??

9 comments:

  1. I could have brought mine over!! It was great fun. :) I think I had mine before we were even friends yet - as hard as that is to imagine!

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  2. I have mine in the basement. You're welcome to come bake. :)

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  3. I always used my sister's... :)

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  4. I wanted one. But I only managed to get a Light-Bright instead. Not that I didn't wont it, I did and I loved it. But, an E-Z-Bake oven was on my list too. Although, I had a friend with older sisters so I got to use theirs sometimes. It was fun!

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  5. you should get an EZ bake oven and totally use it at work. tasty treats galore!

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  6. Jon. do you wish to weep? I will allow it.

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  7. I think Ariel's shown me that poster before, and I love it! Good stuff.

    Now, while I loved my EZ Bake Oven like every other little girl, as an adult, I think they're cruel. You smell that amazing baking brownie smell, and it builds up all this anticipation... but the final product does NOT satisfy. Then you have to go and bake REAL brownies, or you'll be in a grumpy mood all night. Basically, EZ Bake Oven = dessert porn.

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  8. I have one in my garage. No joke. You're totally getting it for your birthday.

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  9. I loved the poem! That was amazing and made me smile :)

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